Start with yourself- your personal goals. Make yourself someone who YOU would be attracted to.
This isn’t about being physically attractive. Be attractive in your personality and activities.
So…how do you attract people?
START WITH YOURSELF:
– You gotta be real! Share the good and the bad. Be honest. People need to be able to relate to you. If all you present is a perfect image, that can be intimidating and off-putting.
– Show people they can do what you’re doing by sharing your experiences. You can’t share what you’re NOT doing.
BE INTERESTED
– Be interested in what people have to say. You need to LISTEN!
– “FORM” them: Ask questions about their Family, Occupation, Recreation activities, Message (your message comes last!)
– Let people finish their sentence then wait (count to 3). Most likely they will continue talking and share more about themselves.
BE INTERESTING:
– Put valuable info out there. Share posts that will engage and interest people. Pay attention to which posts get the most likes.
– Go through your FB page and Instagram… Would you be friends with you? Would you stop to read or view the posts or would just keep scrolling?
– Pick 5 categories to share and consistently post about those things. Determine you interests, focus and passion. Post regularly about those things. Passion speaks loudly and gets people’s attention.
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