More often than not we tend to focus on the negative things about our lives. That way of thinking is not beneficial and is actually not getting us anywhere. We then become stuck! There is no movement forward and often times we will move backwards.
So how do we change what we focus on? We get R.E.A.L.
Realistic-Be honest with yourself!
What do you need to do in order to be a success? Be realistic about the amount of time you have to devote to your goals. How can you improve to become a better person?
Emotional-Your emotions affect so much of what you do!
Dig deep and find your passion! What sets you on fire? Find something that’s going to drive you forward.
Action Oriented-You have to take the steps to improve!
How do you do that? Make a list of what you need to do and then put it in to action. Reach out for assistance and guidance. Choose people who you look up to, respect, and who are knowledgeable on your specific goal.
Long Term-Change yourself!
You have to put in the work so that it’s valuable to you. When something is valuable to you it will actually last long term.